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May is Sexual Assault Awareness & Prevention Month

Posted on: April 26th, 2015 by Nellie's No Comments

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In Ontario, May is Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month: a month dedicated to raising awareness of issues related to sexual violence and promoting ways to stop sexual violence. 1 out of 3 Canadian women experience some form of sexual violence in the life time. You can find more stats on sexual violence here: http://www.women.gov.on.ca/owd/docs/sexual_violence.pdf.

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In March 2011, the Ontario Women’s Directorate started a campaign to end sexual violence, called Changing Attitudes, Changing Lives: Ontario’s Sexual Violence Action Plan. Part of the plan included the recent “Draw the line Campaign,” which encourages bystanders and the greater community at large to take responsibility in ending sexual violence. It encourages people not to just “go along with it”, but to intervene and prevent it from happening. This prevention strategy focuses not only on preventing sexual assault, but also on stopping sexist jokes and challenging rape culture, which refers to societal attitudes about gender that are normalized (such as victim blaming, denial and sexual objectification).

This strategy marks a shift away from victim blaming prevention strategies. Most women can recall being told at some point in their life how they can protect themselves from rape. These strategies included: watching your drink, don’t wear certain clothes; don’t walk home alone at night and many more. These strategies blamed women for when sexual assault happens and made invisible the people who perpetuate sexual assault, predominantly men. Women were told not to get raped, but no one was telling men not to rape. The recent sexual assault prevention strategies seem to be a shift in the right direction.

However, there is still more that needs to be done to challenge systems and laws that put women at risk of sexual violence. It has been recently reported that a sex worker was held captive and sexually assaulted for five days within a man’s home at Dundas Street East and Jones Avenue. Police believe that the man had probably done something like this before. Given the stigma against sex workers, treatment of sex workers by police and the criminalization of sex work, it is unlikely any sex worker would have reported sexual assaults to the police. Bill C-36 also came into effect, which criminalizes aspects of sex work (such as criminalizing clients who purchase sex work, retain material benefit from sale of sexual services and communicating for the purpose of selling sex near schools, playgrounds and daycare). Bill C-36 pushes sex work further underground and puts sex workers’ safety at risk and further marginalizes street-based sex workers. Nellie’s continues to support sex workers, challenge bill C-36 and call for the decriminalization of sex work!

Actions you can take to end sexual violence:

  1. Challenge Rape Culture and check out campaigns, such as draw the line http://www.draw-the-line.ca/
  2. Challenge laws, such as Bill C-36, that put women’s safety at work (more info found can be found at: http://maggiestoronto.ca/ and http://baddatecoalition.ca/ )
  3. Support Nellie’s and other local women’s organizations that support women who experience sexual violence and other gender-based violence

National Volunteers Week 2015 – Nellie’s Board of Directors

Posted on: April 16th, 2015 by Nellie's No Comments

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We would like to thank the members of Nellie’s Board of Directors, Fund Development Committee, Accessibility Committee and Social Justice Committee.  These amazing  women are the ones who work behind the scenes giving generously of their time and expertize to ensure we have the support we need to make a difference to the community we serve.  Their kindness and generosity is greatly appreciated by the women & children of Nellie’s!

Board of Directors

Fran Odette, President

Sienna Leung, Vice President

Michelle Bain, Secretary

Helen Nowak, Treasurer

Lauren Hanna

Bethany Johnson

Sahar Zaidi

Lori Loewen

 

Fund Development Committee

Mary Byberg

Sherri Thiele

 

Accessibility Committee

Tamyka Bullen

Kathe Rogers

 

Social Justice Committee

Jennifer-Ann Joseph

Amy Prisniak

Barbora Malhotra

Lynda Roy

Dale Yurka

National Volunteer Week 2015 – Team Nellies

Posted on: April 14th, 2015 by Nellie's No Comments

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This week we’d like to introduce you to some of the amazing volunteers of Team Nellie’s!  From left to right Jessica Ledere, Jolene Hoffie, Michel Alba, Patricia Chow & Nu Tu Tang.

Nellie’s volunteers are an essential part of our day-to-day work. They are the angels who work tirelessly to help us unpack deliveries & sort donations, set-up rooms & decorations for an Event, stuff envelopes for hundreds of Newsletters and package foods for the weekly Food Bank giveaway.

They will show up early on a Saturday morning to help with the Easter egg hunt, participate in climbing the stairs of the CN Tower, walk, wheel or run in the Scotia Toronto Waterfront Marathon and March for International Women’s Day and the Pride Parade.

Working directly with our women and children to ensure that their experience at Nellie’s is a great one, we could not do the work we do without them. In fact, our every day work would be impossible without our volunteers. They are our heroes!

If you think you have the commitment & drive it takes to be a Nellie’s volunteer (and a great sense of humour) please contact us at community@nellies.org to find out more

National Volunteer Week 2015 – The Basketeers

Posted on: April 13th, 2015 by Nellie's No Comments

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Nellie’s thanks Cherly Stoneburgh and The Basketeers! Each holiday women at Nellie’s Shelter and in the community we serve are happy to get wonderful baskets of holiday cheer and much needed necessities from Cheryl and The Basketeers. On behalf of the women & children of Nellie’s We would like to say a huge Thank You to all of these volunteers whose kindness and generosity are much appreciated by our women & children! The following information from www.basketeers.ca will give you an idea of what The Basketeers are all about and the wonderful work they do in communities all over Canada.

The original concept was “to support women in new beginnings”. The shelters that many of us were already supporting said it was fairly easy to find groups willing to buy or sponsor Christmas gifts for children, but their mothers seemed to have been forgotten. We feel by supporting the mothers, they will, in turn, find the strength to create new lives for themselves and their children and not return to the abuser, and will feel stronger for their children. That is why our group The Basketeers was created. We are a generous group of around 3500 volunteers with large hearts. We are not a registered charity.

In effect, you start by purchasing a large laundry basket and then you fill it with items a woman starting a new life might need. For example, a kitchen basket might contain a kettle, frying pan, kitchen towels, dinnerware, washing-up detergent, etc; a bed and bath basket might include sheets, an alarm clock, a blanket, pillow, shower curtain etc. You are encouraged to make every basket special by adding luxury items, such as chocolates, scented soaps, cream, bath oils, etc. The Basketeers also advocate including gift cards from grocery or department stores.

Look how we’ve grown! In 2000 we started with 14 baskets and in 2013 we supported 47 women’s shelters in southwestern Ontario and British Columbia with a total of 1,329 beautifully wrapped baskets. In fourteen years we have grown from the original group of Basketeers covering the Greater Toronto Area and now we have ten additional chapters located in Stratford, Ottawa, York, Hamilton, Brantford, Guelph, Thunder Bay, Prince Edward County, Durham, Penticton, BC and Montreal, QC. All chapters have their own drop off locations, on the same day.

Please click here to volunteer with The Basketeers!