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Archive for December, 2011

Happy Holidays from Nellie’s!

Posted on: December 23rd, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

On behalf of all the women and children at Nellie’s shelter, we wish everyone a Holiday Season as magical as we are having, followed by a New Year of Peace, Joy and Love.

See you in the new year!

YOU DID IT! A new boiler for Nellie’s Shelter is on its way!

Posted on: December 22nd, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Thank you for your incredible response to our urgent appeal
for a new boiler for Nellie’s Shelter!

In less than a day, our incredible community of donors have collectively raised over  $12,000 we needed for a new boiler at Nellie’s Shelter!  

Thank you to everyone who shared our appeal by twitter, facebook,
blogs, and e-mail.

We are very pleased to report that a new boiler is already
on its way to the shelter!

Thanks to you, the residents of Nellie’s will sleep safe, sound, and warm
tonight and through the winter.

On behalf of everyone at Nellie’s Shelter, thank you for opening up your hearts and truly giving a “Home for the Holidays” for the
women and children in our care.

~Margarita Mendez, Nellie’s Executive Director~


“Christmas is not as much about opening our presents as opening our hearts.” – Janice Maeditere

URGENT HOLIDAY APPEAL!

Posted on: December 21st, 2011 by Nellie's 1 Comment

Thank you to our donors for helping us create a “Home for the Holidays” for the women and children at Nellie’s Shelter.

We urgently need your help!  Today, the boiler at Nellie’s Shelter completely broke down!

We must raise over $12,000 over the next few days or we will not be able to heat the shelter over the holidays! 

We have nowhere to turn to for replacement of the boiler, as numerous emergency repairs and maintenance at the shelter over the last year has drained our reserve funds.

So we are asking you, our donors, to urgently send a donation now to “Nellie’s Boiler Appeal!”

Please call us at 416-461-0769 or make a donation online here and indicate “Boiler” with your gift.

We place our confidence with you to help us buy a new boiler to ensure that the women and kids at Nellie’s are truly “Home for the Holidays!”

“Christmas is not as much about opening our presents as opening our hearts.”  – Janice Maeditere –

Last Chance to Participate in Nellie’s Online Auction!

Posted on: December 15th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

In less than 24 Hours Nellie’s Online Holiday Auction will be closed.  100% of the proceeds from this event will go to support programs and services for the women and children at Nellie’s who have escaped situations of violence and abuse.

There are still some amazing gifts left so please head over to Nellie’s Marketplace and make your bid now.

Items still up for auction include:

$1000 Brooks Brothers Wardrobe

A one-week Cottage stay on Pigeon Lake

Star Quilt by the York Heritage Quilt Guild

Ten Zippered Pouches by tenacious

Breville Juice Fountain Elite

Hors D’Oeurves for 20 by Urban Souce Catering

One-night stay at the Marmora Inn

Cuisinart 10-piece Cookware Set

J.A Henckles 13-piece Knife Set

5 treatments at Toronto Community Accupuncture

Half-hour Massage from Physical Dimensions

Shel-Lux Manicure from Lux Spa 

Sunbeam Convection Oven

Set of 4 Marquis by Waterford Wine Glasses

2 TRX Training Session from TRX TrainStation

Resume and Cover Letter Service from Ruscillo & Associates

$50 Gift Certificate from Stout Irish Pub

$50 Gift Certificate from LOIC Gourmet

$25 Gift Certificate from Lit Espresso Bar

$25 Gift Certificate from the Duke of York Pub

And MORE!

Nellie’s Marketplace closes at 12 noon tomorrow, Friday December 16th.  At that time, the highest bidder of each auction item will be contacted by phone or e-mail.  In the event that we cannot process your payment by Wednesday December 21st, we will offer the auction item to the next highest bidder.

Give a gift with extra meaning this holiday season, and support our work to end violence against women and children.

 From everyone at Nellie’s, Happy Holidays and thank you for your support!

Human Rights Day and Aboriginal Women in Canada

Posted on: December 10th, 2011 by Nellie's 1 Comment

Today, December 10th is celebrated as Human Rights Day both at home and around the world. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR) was adopted on December 10th, 1948 and for 63 years this date has marked Human Rights Day worldwide. This year the theme for Human Rights Day is the transformative power of social media, and how tools like twitter, facebook, blogs, and instant messaging are transforming ordinary people into human rights activists. Over the past 6 months at Nellie’s, we have experienced firsthand the power of social media to communicate and engage with our supporters online through our twitter, facebook, and blog and we believe that social media is a great tool to advance important causes.

On Human Rights Day this year, we would like to use the power of social media to bring attention to the most important human rights issue in our country – the treatment of Aboriginal Women and Girls. The Native Women’s Association of Canada estimates that within the last twenty years, over 500 Aboriginal women and girls have gone missing in Canada. According to the Canadian Government, young Aboriginal (First Nations, Metis & Inuit) women are five times more likely than other women of the same age to die as the result of violence in Canada. Indigenous women have struggled for a long time to draw attention to violence within their families and communities, without much support from Canadian police and public officials.

Racist violence against Indigenous women in Canadian cities is well known through the media, but little has been done to prevent it. The results of these racist policies and lack of attention have resulted in racist and sexist stereotypes of Indigenous women, encouraging some men to feel they can get away with acts of hatred against them. In April 1999, the U.N. Human Rights Committee declared the situation of Aboriginal people in Canada as “the most pressing human rights issue” in our country. In 2007 Robert Pickton had 27 charges laid against him and 1/3 of the women he is accused of killing were Aborignal.

Decades of government policy have impoverished and broken apart Indigenous families and communities, leaving many Indigenous women and girls extremely vulnerable to exploitation and attack. Since the early 19th century, over 150,000 Aboriginal children have been forced to attend residential schools, away from their families and their communities. Children were forced to assimilate to mainstream Canadian culture and were “discouraged from speaking their first language or practising native traditions. If they were caught, they would experience severe punishment.” (CBC News). Many children taken from their parents were subjected to horrific violence and sexual abuse.

The Native Women’s Association of Canada and Amnesty International are two organizations that work tirelessly to keep the issue of violence against Aboriginal (First Nations, Metis & Inuit) women in the public eye. Amnesty International released their Stolen Sisters Report in 2004 and The Native Women’s Association of Canada holds an annual Stolen Sisters Vigil every year on October 4th to honour the lives of missing and murdered Aboriginal women and girls.

Today, Human Rights Day, is an opportunity to reflect on violations against those that are most vulnerable in our communities. Stand together with us to recognize that human rights means the right to health and well-being for ALL regardless of gender, race, class, sexual orientation, age or ability. This blog post marks the end of our 16 Days to End Gender Violence Blog Series. Thank you for following this series and for sharing our posts with others. Together, we are creating awareness and inspiring action to prevent violence against women at home and around the world.

Why GirlFight?

Posted on: December 8th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Tomorrow night at The Great Hall, PinkMafia will host the second round of GirlFight. This fundraising event was created by PinkMafia’s founder Anna Von Frances and will feature all-female K1 Thai Boxing. The event will be hosted by Hook Up Muay Thai and MMA Fighter Robin Black. The first round of GirlFight, which was the very first all-female boxing even in Toronto, took place last year and raised over $5000 for Nellie’s. This year Anna’s goal is to raise $10,000 to go towards building a new shelter for the women and children escaping violence, poverty, and homelessness.

A question that has been addressed to us a few times is: “Why would a women’s shelter host an event that features women fighting?” Here is our answer:

Women who come to Nellie’s are fleeing violence that is perpetrated by an aggressor against a victim. It is unwanted, and leaves lasting physical and psychological trauma, as well as emotional damage. Violence against women is a human rights abuse.

GirlFight is a sporting event that features boxing and kick boxing between two consenting women who are trained professionals. The women participating in GirlFight come to the event expecting and wanting to compete, the match is refereed and sanctioned and can end at any time if one of the participants wants to stop, and the sport is based on endurance, technique and strategy. None of the women at GirlFight are experiencing aggression against their will. Everything that occurs is consensual, sanctioned, and professional.

Anna Von Frances, the creator of this event and a boxer herself describes her experience participating in the sport as follows: “Boxing and kickboxing have taught me to stay calm in heated situations and above all, that I do not have to be victimized by anyone, anytime. It’s the most empowering thing I’ve ever done and has given me the confidence as well as a sense of community that I’ve never had before.” Girlfight promotes self-esteem and empowerment through physical fitness and positive expressions of aggression and aims to promote the sport to more women in the community.

Debby Cabral, a fighter from Hook Up Muay Thai who will be at GirlFight tomorrow spoke to She Does the City about what boxing means to her: “What I love most about Muay Thai is that it has changed my life forever. I was in a dark place for a long time and didn’t really have any goals. Once I discovered Muay Thai and my family at Hook Up, everything changed for the better.” Read more about Debby here.

All proceeds from GirlFight tomorrow night will directed towards Nellie’s new shelter. For more information, please visit the GirlFight facebook page. There are a limited number of advance tickets available for $20 and they can be purchased here – there will be a few extras at the door. There will also be a raffle with some great prizes including Puma swag, a Heineken Beertender, and two 1-year memberships to 99 Sudbury. Music by Steve Rock + Fawn B.C. Hope to see you there!

National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women

Posted on: December 6th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Today is the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women, otherwise known as December 6th, when on that date in 1989, a man murdered 14 female students at Ecole Polytechnique in Montreal because they were women.

Each year we remember Genevieve Bergeron, Helene Colgan, Nathalie Croteau, Barbara Daigneault, Anne-Marie Edward, Maud Haviernick, Maryse Laganiere, Maryse Leclair, Anne-Marie Lemay, Sonia Pelletier, Michele Richard, Annie St-Arneault, Annie Turcotte, and Barbara Klucznik-Widajewicz and grieve over each promising young life cut short by misogyny and violence.

Two years ago we marked the 20th Anniversary of the Montreal Massacre. It remains important today that we continue to honour not only these 14 women who lost their lives 22 years ago, but also the number of women who continue to die at the hands of their abusers.  This year in Ontario, 16 women were murdered by their intimate partners who were later charged or committed suicide (OAITH Femicide List).  Being heard in court right now is the trial of the honour murders of three sisters,  Zainab, 19, Sahar, 17, and Geeti  Shafia, 13 and their step mother Rona in 1999 . On this day we also honour female survivors of violence, including a Toronto mother and her two children who were thrown off their balcony, but survived (CBC News).

As long as women continue to be harmed and killed because of their gender, we will have a reason to light candles and carry roses on December 6th in their memory.  Tonight, Women Won’t Forget is holding their annual December 6th Vigil at Philosopher’s Walk at the University of Toronto at 6:00pm.  There will be a First Nations healing ceremony, performances, and a speech by Aruna Papp, a survivor of forced marriage and domestic abuse who is now a counselor.

Today, The National Day for Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women,  join us at the Women Won’t Forget Vigil to remember, reflect, and advocate for change.

International Volunteer Day

Posted on: December 5th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Today is International Volunteer Day, a day to recognize and celebrate the wonderful, outstanding, and powerful contributions that volunteers make to society!

At Nellie’s, volunteers make an invaluable contribution to our programs and services each and every day.  Our volunteers work in a variety of roles such as Board & Committee Members, Direct Service Volunteers, and Administration & Special Events Volunteers.

Last year our volunteers provided over 10,000 hours of service cooking hot, nutritious food for the women at our supper program, performing administrative tasks to support our fundraising team, creating arts & crafts activities for the children at Nellie’s, and creating awareness and action to prevent violence against women through events in our community.

WE believe that volunteers make a valuable contribution. Without them, we would be unable to provide the supports and services that vulnerable women and children require.

WE believe that volunteers are entitled to orientation, training, supervision, support, evaluation and recognition and it is our responsibility to provide these.

WE make a commitment in terms of time, energy and resources to ensure that volunteers are able to participate fully in the life of the organization and are able to meet their personal objectives of volunteering in the organization.

WE will ensure that all volunteers are aware of both their rights and responsibilities as part of the organization.

Thank you Volunteers for all that you do for the women and children at Nellie’s! 

International Day of Persons with DisAbilities

Posted on: December 3rd, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

December 3 is the International Day of Persons with Disabilities.  This day aims to promote an understanding of disAbility issues and mobilize support for the rights and well-being of persons with disAbilities. It also seeks to increase awareness of the oppression and barriers that people with disabilities face each and every day.

Here are some facts about women with disAbilities in Canada that highlight WHY this is such an important issue:

  • 16% of all women have a disAbility
  • DisAbled girls are twice as likely to be sexually assaulted.
  • The unemployment rate for Women with disAbilities is 74% and the most inescapable reality for Women with disAbilities is poverty. The median employment income for a disabled woman is $8,360 (Canadian). The median employment income for a disabled man is $19,250. (Health and Activity Limitation Survey, Statistics Canada.)

The 2011 theme for this day is “Together for a better world for all: Including persons with disabilities in development.” We believe everyone has a role to play in advocating for the rights of people with disAbilites, including Nellie’s.  For the past year, Women and Accessibility has been our theme for service improvement.  Some of the steps we’ve taken to improve accessibility at our organization include:

1) Completed extensive training on Inclusion and Access: What Does This Mean for Nellie’s with Springtide Resources. We learned how the AODA (Accessibility for Ontarians with Disabilities Act) and Customer Service Standards apply to our work at Nellie’s and we discussed practical strategies for making space and programs more accessible for women with disAbilities and deaf women.

2) Wrote a position paper on Women and Accessibility, which provides a framework for staff when working with women with disAbilities and deaf women.  It will also provide context and understanding of the social barriers that oppress women with disAbilities.  It is our hope that the position paper will be used as a resource for other organizations working with women with disAbilities.  It will be available on our website in 2012 – stay tuned!

3) Facilitated our Women & Accessibility Group for  women with disAbilities who have experienced violence.  Held in partnership with Springtide Resources at our accessibile Community Support & Outreach Office, women met once a week for 8 weeks this summer to discuss issues of violence and oppression and to develop strategies to eliminate barriers to the full inclusion of women with disAbilities in society. Participants in this group enjoyed peer support and an opportunity to network and we are excited to run this group again in 2012.

(Our Women & Accessibility Group enjoying an outing to the movies)

Today marks the International Day of Persons with DisAbilities. Please reflect on the facts and commit to our role in supporting accessibility.  For more information, including statistics, visit the DisAbled Women’s Network (DAWN).