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Proof Bar’s #IGLOOsive Experience is Back by Popular Demand

Posted on: October 21st, 2020 by Nellie's No Comments
Proof Bar's heated igloos, InterContinental Toronto Yorkville

Proof Bar’s heated igloos, InterContinental Toronto Yorkville

Enjoy all that a Canadian winter has to offer in Proof Bar’s heated outdoor igloos

 TORONTO, October 13th, 2020 –  In the Spirit of Community Support during this unprecedented time, Proof Bar, located in The InterContinental Toronto Yorkville’s is offering its heated outdoor Igloos, in partnership with Nellies, Shelter for Women and Children.    Proceeds of each Reservation will go directly to Nellies Shelter for Women and Children to allow further support in our community.

2020 has been a challenging one for Nellie’s, says Jyoti Singh, Executive Director of Nellie’s. In early April, eleven women living in our shelter tested positive for COVID-19.  With the increase cost of keeping women and their children safe due to enhanced infection controls, we are grateful to businesses like the InterContinental Toronto Yorkville for their support. The support we have received from organizations like the InterContinental has helped us maintain much need programs and services to during these difficult times.

“We have all been personally effected by COVID-19 and our heart reaches out to all the Women and Children in these vulnerable situations.  Nellie’s has been supporting our community since 1973 and we felt it was crucial to support them in our current environment,” says Simon Chapman, General Manager of the InterContinental Toronto Yorkville.

The Three Igloos have a dedicated lounge tasting menu, perfect for enjoying light bites and drinks under the stars.  Offering a private experience for two or four guests.  Your IGLOOsive Reservations can be booked now through February 29th, 2020.

Guests looking to book their IGLOOsive experience can call 647-464-3310. The reservation line is open from 10:00 a.m to 4:00 p.m. daily and igloos are available from 4 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. seven days a week until February 29, 2021.     Due to the significant cleaning protocols in between reservations, we have allocated a time restrictions of 1 hour per reservation, with one hour of sanitization and rest in between each reservation.

For more information on the InterContinental Toronto Yorkville’s IGLOOsive experience, please visit toronto.intercontinental.com.

Profile: Meet Lindsey Walton

Posted on: October 16th, 2020 by Nellie's No Comments
Lindsey Walton Nellie's new Board Member

Meet Lindsey Walton, new Board Member at Nellie’s

As a student at Brock University, Nellie’s newest Board Director Lindsey Walton was one of just a few women who graduated with a Bachelor of Science, Mathematics Integrated with Computers and Applications (MICA) degree in 2006. She went on to work in the capital markets industry in Toronto, starting in venture capital and eventually becoming a Chartered Financial Analyst managing risk on the trading floor at CIBC. She experienced gender inequity in different forms throughout her career in the industry, inspiring her to want to get involved and make change.

It was at this time that Lindsey went to work as a Director at Women in Capital Markets (WCM), a firm aimed at accelerating gender diversity in finance. “I’ve always been an active advocate for gender equity and assumed I was well versed in the space, however, after joining WCM I realized how little I truly knew about diversity, inclusion and equity generally and how complicated a topic it was. I started to pay more attention to everywhere where I was in a privileged group and how different other peoples’ experiences were” says Lindsey.

“When the COVID‐19 pandemic hit, I started to hear about the shadow epidemic—how abusive situations were amplified as a result of the quarantine—and I felt a responsibility to help in whatever way I could” says Lindsey. “When I saw that there was a Board seat open at Nellie’s, I applied because I felt I could lend my skill set to the organization and contribute to this important work.”

Lindsey currently works as the Head of Canada at the UN supported Principles for Responsible Investment. A mom to two girls, aged 6 and almost 9, Lindsey has been a tough advocate within their school community. She successfully garnered support from local politicians, including the Premier of Ontario, for her comprehensive plans to address overcrowding in public schools.

And, she played a key role in securing increased safety measures around the Eglinton-LRT construction near the school as well as donations from Metrolinx to fund school activities as partial compensation for the disruptive construction.

Nellie’s Board of Directors is comprised of incredible women in our community who are passionate about ending violence against women and children. Working with Nellie’s, Lindsey believes both her work as a woman in finance and her local advocacy skills will be an advantage to the organization.

“I hope to leverage my network and make connections where I can to support the incredible work that Nellies is doing,” says Lindsey. “I will continue to apply my knowledge of Canadian policy and advocacy experience towards driving change including garnering more support for the crucial services Nellies provides. Progress for women is meaningless if it doesn’t include all women. We are only as strong as the most marginalized and that’s where we need to focus.”

Welcome Lindsey! We’re so happy you’re here.

Despite pandemic restrictions, Children’s Program still a safe space for kids

Posted on: October 7th, 2020 by Nellie's No Comments

 

young girl playing outside

Despite pandemic restrictions, Children’s Program still a safe space for kids

Much like everything else at Nellie’s, we’ve made changes to how we run our Children’s Program in order to ensure our moms, kids, and staff stay safe.

Social distancing, masks when in the playroom, and temperature checks have become the norm for kids living at Nellie’s. But living in a shelter during a global pandemic adds an additional level of stress and anxiety for kids (and moms), and, what hasn’t changed at our Children’s Program, is the opportunity it gives kids to have a safe space to express their feeling and work through their emotions in an age-appropriate way.

“It’s difficult because many of the kids are nervous and fearful about COVID-19. They’re like sponges, the good information and the bad information all gets absorbed,” says Cordelia Fox, Children’s Program Worker. “We listen to the messages they’ve heard, fact check the information, and transform it into kid-appropriate messages.”

Since the program was first created in 2017, Cordelia has always planned the monthly themes as well as all of the weekly activities, and is committed to providing content and activities that are diverse, inclusive and reflective of the populations we work with. With many of the kids, staff often talk about appropriate and inappropriate expressions of emotion during the activities. Most of the kids have only ever experienced inappropriate (or unsafe) expressions of emotion. Nowadays, discussion topics often include managing change (both pre- and post-COVID experiences), managing emotions, and stress management strategies.

Every Friday afternoon, the program moves outside. In the summer, Nellie’s backyard was turned into a small garden for kids and moms to learn how-to nurture and tend to plants. Now that the weather is cooler, kids play ball, chalk on the pavement or skip rope. Cordelia hopes that even in the winter, they’ll be able to continue going outside to play.

“We have a really nice backyard, it’s small but it’s a nice space. Getting outside for programming gives everyone a chance to get some fresh air, and provides a bit of normalcy during these difficult times,” says Cordelia.

When inside the playroom, visual cues, such as tape marks on the floor and tables remind kids to physically distance. Similar to daycare centre protocols, temperatures are checked when they arrive and anyone over the age of 2 has to wear a mask. (As part of our COVID-19 response plan, reusable and disposable masks are provided to everyone living at Nellie’s.) Only a few toys remain in the playroom and when a child plays with one, it’s fully disinfected before being returned to the shelf. For crafts, we purchased extra supplies to give every child their own pencil case filled with crayons, markers, glue and scissors. This cuts down on the need for sharing.

Snacks, which have always been available for the kids during programming, are now individually packaged or prepared in advance and put in disposable bowls.

Before the pandemic, Cordelia often planned mother and child outings to local attractions, such as the AGO or the Aga Khan museum. Since those types of bonding experiences are no longer feasible, she plans other activities.

“Movie nights give moms the opportunity to bond with their children, and forget about the pandemic for a few hours.”

Want to help us support children living at Nellie’s? Make a secure online donation at nellies.org. Or, you can make an even bigger impact by becoming a monthly donor. As a regular monthly supporter, your generosity provides critical and consistent funding towards our daily efforts to help women and their children impacted by abuse, trauma and homelessness. Automatic monthly payments are easy to set up, convenient, and create a lasting impact on the lives of women and their children at Nellie’s.