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Nellie’s is recruiting Board Members!

Posted on: May 30th, 2014 by Nellie's No Comments
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Nellie’s Board of Directors

ABOUT NELLIE’S

Nellie’s operates a 36 bed emergency shelter for women and children who are seeking shelter and / or leaving violence.  Nellie’s also operates a community support and outreach program for low income and socially isolated women and children in the community.

Nellie’s is seeking members to join our Board of Directors whose experiences align with Nellie’s Mission:

Our Mission is to operate programs and services for women and children who have and are experiencing oppressions such as violence, poverty and homelessness. Nellie’s is a community-based feminist organization which operates within an anti-racist, anti-oppression framework. We are committed to social change through education and advocacy, to achieve social justice for all women and children.

ABOUT THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

Nellie’s Board of Directors provides strategic leadership for Nellie’s in accordance to the organisation’s Vision, Mission, and Values. The board consists of 10 directors.

Nellie’s Annual Membership Meeting is scheduled for Wednesday, September 24, 2014, at 6 pm. There will be two (2) vacancies on the Board of Directors at that time. This is a call for nominations to fill these two vacancies.

Although individual Board members do not represent any particular constituency of Toronto, our aim is to have our Board membership reflect the city’s population and the clients we serve. Therefore, when recruiting applicants to our Board positions, the Nominations Committee will consider the following:

  • Individuals who bring a perspective that encompasses the general experience of visible minority groups in Toronto.
  • Individuals from diverse ethnic identities and cultural traditions and backgrounds.
  • Individuals who understand from their personal experience, work and/or volunteer activities, issues important to vulnerable or marginalized community members (e.g. disability, sexual orientation, low income, homelessness and age).

This is consistent with Nellie’s commitment to the development of an agency that reflects the women it serves.

Currently Nellie’s is looking for women with experience in the following areas:

  • Working from an Anti-Racist/Anti-oppression Framework
  • Feminist pedagogy and practice
  • Community based skills, including service delivery and / or as a service user
  • Governance
  • Human Resources
  • Fundraising
  • Finance
  • Risk Management
  • Previous Board experience is preferred.

Responsibilities of Successful Applicants:

  • Prepare for and attend monthly Board Meetings (2.5 hours per month + prep time) and the AGM in September
  • Join one Board Committee (meetings usually once per month, 2.5 hours per month + prep time)
  • Participate in the annual Board Retreat in October / November (10 hours approx.)
  • Participate in the ongoing development and implementation of a long term vision and strategic plan for Nellie’s.

Successful applicants to the Nellie’s Board of Directors will be making a commitment to a two-year term, with possibility of extension to a maximum of three two-year terms.

TO APPLY:

Please submit a cover letter outlining your interest to serve on the Board and how your experiences align with Nellie’s mission. Please also include a resume (if applicable) or complete the application form here. Correspondence can be sent by email or fax to:

Janna Cheng-Brown
janna@nellies.org
Fax: 416-461-0970

Deadline for applications: July 4, 2014.

All interested person are invited to and are encouraged to attend a Board information session scheduled on Tuesday, July 8, 2014 from 6:30 – 7:30 at Nellie’s Administrative Office, 754 Queen Street East (Broadview & Queen).This will be an informal opportunity for you to meet with current Board members and talk with them about their experience on Nellie’s Board as well as learn more about Nellie’s.

Embracing Parenthood Behind Bars

Posted on: May 28th, 2014 by Nellie's No Comments

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On June 1st, we are encouraged to celebrate a globally recognized Day of Parents. Naturally, parents all over this world come from various walks of life and inevitably vary in the types of resources they can offer. The General Assembly of the UN states that parents are the key figures in their children’s lives and we should give gratitude for their commitment to nurture and care. But, do all parents get the opportunity to do their best? Don’t some encounter daily struggles or restrictions?

Nellie’s focus this year is on education and advocacy for women who have been criminalized; therefore, as we embrace the upcoming Day of Parents, let us not forget some of the issues faced by incarcerated women who have the challenging responsibility of parenthood while serving their sentence. How can these women be the parents they are expected to be? What about the moms who actually give birth while in prison?

Although not without controversy, Canada has recognized the need of a newborn to be with Mom even while she is in prison. A great example of this was the mother-baby program at Maple Ridge’s Alouette Correctional Centre for Women that opened in 2004. Based on the documented facts about this program, we can gather much information about the experiences of incarcerated mothers. Following are two tales of such Moms.

Noora was admitted to the B.C. Correctional Centre in 2005 during her third trimester. She gave birth in a prison that offered the mom-and baby-program. Even though this made some people uncomfortable, it was often called the “jewel in the women’s correctional system”. Noora was able to breast feed, bond and make her baby feel safe. She spent quality time encouraging her baby’s positive development. Noora continued to serve her sentence as expected.

The program ran in partnership with the Ministry for Children and Family Development, B.C. Women’s Hospital, while facilitated by health research and community support professionals. This program ensured many beneficial impacts to the mom and the baby including better health and self-efficacy. It ensured that moms were better prepared for parenthood, more likely to be positive influences in society when released and less likely to turn to substance use triggered by negative emotions.

Arnaude became a mother in the same prison after the mom-and baby-program was cancelled in 2008. Although most have experienced abuse, neglect, addictions and isolation, women like Arnaude have shared that sitting in a prison post-partum without their babies creates suffering worse than any other. By being taken away from her mom after birth, Arnaude’s baby daughter faced many risks, including isolation, emotional distress, self-esteem and behavioral issues. These children often experience residential disruptions, foster care or periods of time spent with various caretakers.

After four years in operation and without appropriate evaluation, the mother-baby program at Maple Ridge’s Alouette Correctional Centre was cancelled. This closure was eventually challenged in B.C. Supreme Court, and brought forward by former Maple Ridge inmates. They argued the closure to be a violation under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

Although this issue might strike many as a subject best to be avoided and possibly raises too many questions, we must remember that creating equal opportunities is not always a simple task. We are all responsible to ensure that vulnerable parents and children are not excluded and have equitable access to health, educational opportunities and other resources that we all have access to.

Now to the good news… In late 2013, B.C. Supreme Court ruled that Imprisoned mothers do in fact have the constitutional right to care for their newborn babies. B.C. Corrections has 6 months to comply with the ruling.

Ending the Disappearances & Murders of Indigenous women

Posted on: May 23rd, 2014 by Nellie's No Comments

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Violence No More: Ending the Disappearances & Murders of Indigenous women in Canada

Saturday, May 24
5:30pm
Native Canadian Centre of Toronto
16 Spadina Road

8th Gen Artwork by: Erin Marie Konsmo, Media Arts Justice and Projects Coordinator, Native Youth Sexual Health Network

Join No More Silence Families of Sisters in Spirit and The Native Youth Sexual
Health Network to discuss community based responses to violence with Sarah Hunt
Tanya Kappo, Monica Sehovic Bowen Forrester andMaryanne Pearce.

Join us in community to honour the lives of missing and murdered Indigenous
women and on the path of decolonization towards a world free of global
oppression!

http://nationsrising.org/it-starts-with-us/

Please bring your hand drums!

Food by http://www.theempanadadealer.com/

World Pride 2014

Posted on: May 16th, 2014 by Nellie's No Comments

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On May 16th, 2014, the Rainbow Flag was raised at Toronto’s City Hall to acknowledge International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia. World Pride 2014 also announced:

  • This year’s International Grand Marshall, Georgian human rights activist Anna Rekhviashvili;
  • The release of the preliminary WorldPride Human Rights Conference 2014 (WPHRC14) schedule;
  • ALL past IGM’s will attend as a show of support for International Human Rights.

WorldPride, organised by InterPride, is an event that promotes lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT Pride) issues on an international level through parades, festivals and other cultural activities. Founded by Paul Stenson, from 2014, the 45th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the event will be held on a five-year cycle.

WorldPride 2014 Toronto takes place from June 20-29, 2014 & incorporates activism, education, and the history and culture of global LGBTTIQQ2SA* communities. WorldPride 2014 Toronto is presented by Pride Toronto, producer of Canada’s largest annual festival of LGBTTIQQ2SA culture and human rights, under license from InterPride.

Up to 150 LGBTI rights leaders from around the world will speak, including:

  • Edith Windsor, who won the landmark case that overturned the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in the United states
  • Cleve Jones a pioneer in the LGBT movement since the 1970s, who is currently behind the campaign to encourage LGBT tourists to patronize hotels that respect the rights of workers
  • Jóhanna Sigurðardóttir former Prime Minister of Iceland, and the world’s first openly gay head of government
  • Mariela Castro Espin, Director of the Cuban National Centre for Sex Education, longtime leading voice for LGBT Rights in Cuba, and daughter of Cuban President Raul Castro
  • Russian activist and journalist Masha Gessen
  • Ugandan LBGTI activist Frank Mugisha
  • Kenyan human rights lawyer Justice Monica Mbaru
  • Venezuelan trans activist Tamara Adrián, and
  • First Nations Two-Spirited activist Albert McLeod, from The Pas in northern Manitoba and co-founder of the Nichiwakan Gay Society and the Two-Spirited Peoples of Manitoba, amongst many other speakers.

Deputy Mayor Norm Kelly and Coun. Kristyn Wong-Tam announced that the city will host a “historic” mass gay wedding on June 26 – right in the middle of World Pride 2014 celebrations. Up to 150 LGBTQ couples are invited to participate in the summertime “Celebration of Love” which organizers promise will to be the “most elegant and grand pride wedding in history.”

Tents, flowers, live entertainment, and photographers will be supplied for free at Casa Loma. Organizers hope the event will be “the largest LGBTQ wedding in history.” And in the spirit of inclusiveness; Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, New Thought, and Humanist officiants will be on site to marry couples.

Coun. Kyle Rae said the decision to give the event to Toronto is a reflection of the city’s reputation as a gay-friendly city. “I think people in other jurisdictions recognize that there’s something special in Toronto,” Rae said.

*LGBTTIQQ2SA is an abbreviation used to represent a broad array of identities such as, but not limited to, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, intersex, queer, questioning, two-spirited and allies. For more information visit http://www.worldpridetoronto.com

Mother’s Day at Nellies

Posted on: May 8th, 2014 by Nellie's No Comments

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Mother’s Day originally started with social activist Anne Marie Reeves Jarvis who died on the second Sun day in May, 1905.  Her daughter Anna vowed to make Mother’s day a holiday that would honour all mother’s as well as her own.

The first Mother’s Day was on May 10, 1905 in Jarvis’ hometown and several other cities and in 1914 President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day

At Nellie’s Shelter, the women celebrating Mother’s Day are not in their own homes, but they are somewhere safe, where they will not suffer abuse or violence of any kind.  Some have their children with them, babies in strollers, toddlers and even teens.

They are getting used to the freedom to just be, with no anger or violence haunting their every action.  They are learning about their rights to live with dignity and respect with the freedom to make their own choices about their lives.  They are learning that they are people of value to the world.

They learn things the rest of us take for granted like how to manage money, to cook meals, to live independently.  They earn how to defend themselves and their rights under the law.  They learn to access services and get the help they need to survive and grow.

They learn that as women, they are important and as Mothers they have the most important job in the world – raising the next generation!

So this Mother’s Day, celebrate the Mother s in your life, the ones who gave you the tools to be the person you are today.  The ones who were there to answer questions and watch you grow.

And if you have a moment, think of the women who are trying to do the best they can in less than ideal circumstances at our Shelter.  They are mothers too and they just need a hand to help them on their way.

Click here to donate and if you would like us to send a card in honour of Mother’s Day, please choose the Tribute option and we would be happy to do so.