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International Women Human Rights Defenders Day

Posted on: November 29th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Today, November 29th is International Woman Human Rights Defenders Day.  It is a day to draw attention to the very important work that women around the world are doing to ensure that women’s rights are human rights.

Ensuring the rights, health and well-being of women is to ensure the future of humanity. For decades, international policies protecting the rights of women have been promised, but a global scan of the lives of women around the world today show a vast majority trapped in lives filled with suffering and pain. A global context of racism, classism and sexism work together to create 3 primary barriers that prevent women and their children from living healthy and happy lives: 1) War -perpetuated by a military-industrial complex 2) Poverty -perpetuated by corporate greed and globalization and  3) Violence against women -perpetuated by patriarchal legal systems and decision-makers who protect the status quo.

Rape and sexual violence have long been associated with war and armed-conflict. In the Democratic Republic of Congo alone, an estimated 1,100 rapes are reported each month – that’s an average of 36 women and girls raped each day! It is estimated that during the conflict in Bosnia in the early 1990’s, up to 200,000 women were raped.

Abject poverty can be blamed for the booming business of human trafficking of women and children for slavery or sex work at an estimated USD $32 billion a year, rivaling the economies of some small countries. Dowry murders, honour killings, the prevalence of HIV-AIDS, breast pressing, female genital mutilation, traumatic gynecologic fistula caused by early sexual abuse of girls, female infanticide and a lack of health care (especially reproductive health care) for women result in the staggering truth that in our world today, among women aged 15 to 44, acts of violence cause more death and disability than cancer, malaria, traffic accidents and war combined.

Today,  on International Woman Human Rights Defenders Day, we recognize the courage of women and the organisations that work tirelessly to address these issues with the goal of achieving human rights and equality for all women. Women such as Tawakkol Karman, journalist and President of the NGO Women Journalists without Chains who has long campaigned against human rights violations in Yemen. This October, three days after Karman received notification of being awarded the Nobel Peace prize for her efforts to advance the rights of women in Yemen, she and fellow women activists rallying against the government, were forced to endure the pelting of stones thrown by pro-government thugs.  For more information on Women Human Rights Defenders, please visit the Woman Human Rights Defenders International Coalition.

How can you make a difference and be a human rights defender?

1) Recognize inequality and encourage change

2) End the abuse of power by those who inflict suffering on those most vulnerable in our communities and around the world by demanding human rights for all women and children.

3) Support women and children to empower themselves and to take control over their own bodies, wages and lives

4) Advocate for ending violence, poverty, homelessness and the oppression of women and children

5) Volunteer your talents or make a donation to an organisation that is working to improve the quality of life for women and children

“…the full and complete development of a country, the welfare of the world and the cause of peace require the maximum participation of women on equal terms with men in all fields.”  ~1979 Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW) ratified by 180 nation/states around the world


5 Amazing Organizations Ending Violence

Posted on: November 28th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

If you’ve been following this blog for a while, you know what WE do at Nellie’s to support women and children who are escaping violence and abuse, so as part of the 16 Days to End Gender Violence we wanted to share the AMAZING work that other organizations are doing in this movement to end violence.  Here are 5  fantastic organizations whose work we deeply admire and respect and encourage you to follow.

WHO ARE THEY: The Canadian Women’s Foundation is a national foundation dedicated to improving the lives of women and girls across the country.  Guided by the wisdom of women’s lived experience and powered by their passion for social change, the CWF invests in programs and organizations (including Nellie’s) that move women and girls out of violence, out of poverty, and into confidence. Their Girls’ Fund supports all-girl programs that help build strong, confident girls through mentoring, physical activity, education, and group discussion.

WHY THEY’RE AWESOME: Because they believe that Canada will only reach its true potential when women and girls can reach theirs.

twitter: @cdnwomenfdn
facebook: facebook.com/CanadianWomensFoundation
web: www.canadianwomen.org 

WHO ARE THEY: Founded in 1991, the White Ribbon Campaign is the largest global effort of men and boys working to end violence against women.  The goals of the White Ribbon Campaign are challenging people to speak out about violence, educating young people (especially boys and men), raising public awareness, working in partnership with women’s organizations, and supporting White Ribbon Campaign initiatives around the world.  Every year men are invited to step into women’s high heel shoes for the Walk a Mile in Her Shoes fundraising event to raise money for White Ribbon.

WHY THEY’RE AWESOME: Because involving men and boys in the fight to end violence against women is crucial.

twitter: @whiteribbon
facebook: facebook.com/whiteribboncampaign 
web: www.whiteribbon.ca

WHO ARE THEY: V-Day is a global movement to end violence against women, started by playwright, performer, and activist Eve Ensler. V-Day is an organized response against gender-based violence and demands that rape, incest, battery, genital mutilation, and sexual slavery must end NOW.  The V-Day vision is a world where women live safely and freely. Every year for V-Day (February 14th), local groups are invited to stage a performance of one of Eve’s plays, with the proceeds going to a women’s shelter in their area.  Last  year, we were the proud recipients of proceeds from The University of Toronto/OISE’s production of The Vagina Monologues.

WHY THEY’RE AWESOME: Because Eve reclaimed February 14th,  Valentine’s Day as V-Day, to celebrate women and end violence because “love shouldn’t hurt.”

twitter: @vday
facebook: facebook.com/vday
web: www.vday.org

WHO ARE THEY:  The Assaulted Women’s Helpline provides crisis counselling, emotional support, information, and referrals to women over the phone, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in up to 154 languages. Information and support are also available to friends and family members of abused women, service providers and other professionals in contact with abused women.  The Assaulted Women’s Helpline has answered more than 278,000 calls since 1985, and every year they help over 49,000 women in Ontario.

WHY THEY’RE AWESOME: Because counselors are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support women in crisis.

twitter: @awhl 
facebook: facebook.com/AssaultedWomensHelpline 
web: www.awhl.org

WHO ARE THEY: Launched in November 2009 by UN Women,  Say NO – UNiTE to End Violence against Women is a social mobilization platform on ending violence against women and girls.  Say NO – UNiTE showcases advocacy efforts and engages people from all walks of life, online and on the ground. When you go to the Say NO – UNiTE website you can sign-up to share the actions you are taking to end violence against women and invite others to join you.  So far over 2 million actions have been taken globally.

WHY THEY’RE AWESOME: Because providing a forum for people to share their actions to end violence against women will inspire others to follow.

twitter: @SayNO_UNiTE
facebook: facebook.com/SayNO.UNiTE
web: www.saynotoviolence.org

16 Days to End Gender Violence Begins Today

Posted on: November 25th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Today, November 25th marks the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women.  In Ontario, November is recognized as Women Abuse Prevention Month. While those of us at Nellie’s, and other women’s organizations work tirelessly everyday for the elimination of violence, today the international community and citizens around the world are asked to stop, pay attention, and take action to stop violence against women.

In Canada, the right to live free from violence is promised to all under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.  Unfortunately for women who are forced to enter a shelter, this right has been violated by an abusive partner, family member, or friend.  According to Statistics Canada, in 2008, over 61,000 women in this country fled to a shelter to escape abuse and 146 women were killed before they could access help.  Since 1999 in the province of Ontario, 471 women (and 57 children) have been murdered by their intimate partners, who were later charged or committed suicide.   16 women have been murdered this year.  You can view their names here.

Last year at Nellie’s we provided shelter to 167 women and their children. Research confirms that the most dangerous time for a woman in an abusive relationship is right before she leaves and the most likely place for a woman to be assaulted or killed is in her very own home!  It is only with courage, determination, strength and perseverance that these 167 women left their abusive relationships in search of a better life.

The International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women marks the first day of 16 Days to End Gender Violence.  During this time (Nov 25th-Dec 10th) we will be blogging to raise awareness and to commemorate key dates such as International Women Human Rights Defenders Day (Nov 29th), International Day for DisAbled Persons (Dec 3), National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women (Dec 6), and International Human Rights Day (Dec 10).

We hope you’ll join us in creating awareness and inspiring action to prevent violence against women at home and around the world by sharing our posts with your family and friends.  You can click on “leave a comment” below to post to facebook, twitter, google+ or e-mail.

The Basketeers help create new beginnings for the women at Nellie’s

Posted on: November 21st, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

This past Saturday the Basketeers hosted their annual Gift Basket Drive for women’s shelters across the GTA.  Founded in 2000 by Cheryl Stoneburgh, the Basketeers work with over 3500 donors and volunteers to create gift baskets for women who are moving out of shelters and into new homes.  This is our second year receiving support from the Basketeers and on Saturday they delivered 50 baskets to our shelter.

Nellie’s Development Manager, Wendy Sung-Aad (left) with Basketeers Founder Cheryl Stoneburgh.

Volunteers begin with a laundry basket and  fill it up with items women will need in their new homes.  A kitchen themed basket may include items like a kettle, frying pan, kitchen towels, dinnerware, washing detergent, etc.  A bed/bathroom themed basket will include items like sheets, an alarm clock, a blanket, pillow, towels, etc.  Volunteers are also encouraged to include  items such as chocolate, scented soaps, body cream, and bath oils to make the baskets extra special for the women.

Special thanks to the volunteers who packed and loaded the baskets for Nellie’s.

Many of the women who arrive at Nellie’s come with little more than the clothes on their back.  When they are ready to move out of the shelter and into a new home, it can be an intimidating experience.   With few personal possessions and a limited income, buying items to furnish their new homes can be difficult – this is why the support from the Basketeers is so crucial. Thank you Basketeers for helping create new beginnings for the women and children at Nellie’s Shelter!

Nellie’s Holiday Auction is Online Today!

Posted on: November 18th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

This holiday season, give a gift with extra meaning…

Today we are so excited to announce that Nellie’s Holiday Auction is LIVE and ONLINE at Nellie’s Marketplace Website. This inaugural online fundriasing event is being held to raise funds for the women and children at Nellie’s who will be with us over the holidays.

The support we have received from business owners in our community has been fantastic and we are pleased to offer many great items such as spa packages, dinners, gift certificates, vacations, household items, and much more!

  Know someone who loves coffee?  Why not purchase a $25 Gift Certificate from Lit Espresso Bar, one of Toronto’s most talked-about new coffee shops.  Want to surprise your special someone with some time away from the city?  How about a 1-night stay at the Marmora Inn. Trying to shop for the fashionistas in your family – a $1000 family wardrobe from Brooks Brothers would be perfect!

Have the gifts you give this holiday season come with extra meaning by purchasing them from Nellie’s Marketplace. 100% of the proceeds from our online auction will go to the women and children at Nellie’s who are beginning new lives, free from violence and abuse.

 In addition to our Marketplace Website, we will be featuring our items on twitter so please follow us @nelliesshelter for up to date information, and maybe even a few bidding wars. Our auction is online until December 16th so bid high and bid often!

We  hope you find the perfect gift for your loved ones at Nellie’s Holiday Auction.

Thank-you for making our Back to School & Basics Campaign a success!

Posted on: November 7th, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

Before we get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the holidays, we’d like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who made this year’s Back to School & Basics Campaign a success!  With your support, we were able to send 70 children back to the classroom with new backpacks and school supplies and were able to provide basic necessities like toiletries, towels, and linens to the women at our shelter.

Thank you to our major in-kind donors of back to school items: eHealth Ontario, the Region of Peel, Sparks Productions, APP Canada, and the Sexual Assault Survivors Support Line @ York University.  You donations of brand new pencils, paper, binders, notebooks, crayons, markers, lunch bags and backpacks gave the children at Nellie’s the confidence and capacity to return to school with everything they need. Your support was also appreciated by the 5 women at our shelter who returned to school this fall to being or upgrade their post-secondary education.

Zainab [right] from SASSL at York delivers items donated by York Students.

Thank you as well to those donors who supported us financially.  Your contributions ensure that the women at our shelter are provided with the basic necessities they need as soon as they arrive at our door. We can’t say this enough – none of this would be possible without your support.  THANK YOU to every single individual who donated in-kind and financially to our Back to School & Basics Campaign.  You have helped the children and women at Nellie’s begin the school year on the right track – the track to success!

November is Woman Abuse Prevention Month

Posted on: November 2nd, 2011 by Nellie's No Comments

November is Woman Abuse Prevention Month in Ontario.  According to the Ontario Women’s Directorate , 7% of Ontario women living in a common-law or marital relationship reported experiencing physical/sexual assault by a spousal partner at least once between 1994 and 2004, yet less than one quarter of victims of spousal violence report to the police.

The statistics below demonstrate the importance of Woman Abuse Awareness Month.

  • One half of all Canadian women have experienced at least one incident of violence since the age of 16.
    Statistics Canada. The Daily, Thursday, November 18, 1993.
  • Fear of deportation and fear of the police often keep immigrant and refugee women from reporting woman abuse. Bhola and Nelson 1990, B-35
  • 20% of lesbians had been subjected to psychological, physical, & or sexual abuse in their relationship. Abuse in Lesbian Relationships Laurie C Chesley et al Toronto1991.
  • 60% of women with disabilities are likely to experience some form of violence in their adult lives and 39% of women with disabilities experience physical or sexual assault. Breaking Barriers After Abuse Committee and PATH employment Services.
  • In cases on women of colour and Aboriginal women, almost half (over 40%) live in poverty due to long standing policies and practices of racism. Canadian Research Institute for the
    Advancement of Women.(CRI AW)
  • 8-10% of Ontario women over the age of 65 have experienced abuse. Moore et al:1997 p181.
  • 50% of the transgendered respondents reported having been raped or sexually assaulted by an intimate partner. Gender,
    Violence and Resource Access Survey, Couvert and Cook-Daniels, 1998.

Wondering what YOU can do to prevent Violence Against Women?  Here are some of our suggestions:

  1. Recognize inequality and encourage change
  2. Confront sexism, racism, ableism, classism, homophobia, transphobia, and all forms of oppression
  3. Support women and children to empower themselves, to take control of their own bodies, wages and lives.
  4. Advocate for ending violence, poverty, homelessness and the oppression of women and children.

Please keep checking our blog this month (you can even SUBSCRIBE below). We have some great posts planned for the 16 Days to End Gender Violence from November 25th, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women to December 10th, Human Rights Day.

In the meantime, here are some great sites with more information about what YOU can do to prevent Violence Against Women:

UNiTE to End Violence Against Women

UNIFEM Violence Against Women

VDay 

Status of Women Canada